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A Good Samaritan provided a family with a new home after watching a CBC-TV news report on the homeless in Calgary.

“It’s the right thing to do,” said Frank Webb, who has moved the family into a rental property that he owns. “I couldn’t believe here was this family, doesn’t speak the language, doesn’t have any money, doesn’t have any clothes, stepped off the airplane from some place … and it just felt right.”

Maria Neli, her husband and two daughters, aged 10 months and two years, had been staying at the downtown Salvation Army for the last two months as their refugee claim was assessed. On Monday, they were granted political asylum.

“The workers [at the Salvation Army] really help us, really, really help us, but it’s very hard because it’s not a home for my babies,” said Neli of the shelter.

Neli, who appeared in the story that aired on Saturday, said she was forced to flee her native Mexico. As a lawyer who pursued corruption in the government, she said a high-ranking official threatened her and her family.

She was interviewed by CBC News when she attended an event at Calgary’s Municipal Building over the weekend that featured services and programs for the homeless. The story caught Webb’s attention.

“Seeing these two infant children … in from the cold. It’s our duty as good citizens of Canada to look after these things,” explained Webb, an engineer with two teenage boys himself. “We had room here, so why not offer a good warm place to stay for them.”

Webb called the Salvation Army who posted a message for the family.

Two days later, Webb crammed his van with the family’s belongings and drove them to their new home just outside Calgary.

“I’m very surprised but I’m very happy,” said Neli. “In my country, [these] things not happen ever, so I’m happy.”

Neli said having a home will now give her daughters a chance to grow up in peace, and for the couple to find work.

“If [I'm] a lawyer or any career or something, I need to make good, good work. Only in peace, only free,” she said.

Webb, who describes himself as Latin by birth, sponsors a few families in Costa Rica, helping 14 children through school.

“What better gift can you give anybody? It’s not about the money, it’s about your time,” he said.

A new study shows that meditation opens the gateway to compassion

By David Biello

Like athletes or musicians, people who practice meditation can enhance their ability to concentrate—or even lower their blood pressure. They can also cultivate compassion, according to a new study. Specifically, concentrating on the loving kindness one feels toward one’s family (and expanding that to include strangers) physically affects brain regions that play a role in empathy.

“There is such a thing as expertise when it comes to complex emotions or emotional skills, such as the one of cultivating benevolence,” says Antoine Lutz, a neuroscientist at the University of Wisconsin–Madison who led the study. “That raises the possibility that you can train someone to cultivate this positive emotion.”

Lutz and his colleagues, including neuroscientist Richard Davidson, director of the university’s Waisman Center for Brain Imaging where the study was conducted, took fMRI scans of the brains of 16 veteran meditators as well as 16 others who had started with no meditation experience but received cursory training before they carried out a series of tests. During these tests, the researchers measured the flow of blood in the brains of both the veterans (some of them Tibetan monks) and the American novices as the subjects did or did not meditate on compassionate feelings while being subjected to various sounds with positive and negative connotations.

When engaged in compassionate meditation, the brain region known as the insula burst into action when the expert meditators heard the sound of a woman in distress. (The insula—a part of the limbic system—has been associated with the visceral feeling of emotion, a key part of empathizing with another’s emotional state.)

And when these experts heard the female screams or the sound of a baby laughing, their brains showed more activity than the novices in areas like the right temporal-parietal juncture, which plays a role in understanding another’s emotion.

“The way you are going to understand the emotion of someone else is by somehow simulating, experiencing the emotion. It makes sense that we found some activation of the brain region which is critical for the experience of an emotion,” Lutz says. Similarly, “sometimes you can understand someone but not necessarily experience the emotion … it makes sense that you get activation in a brain region that is more contemplative.”

Although the research does not prove that compassion can be learned, it does suggest that possibility—and that could have implications for treating a range of issues. “Can this type of training be used for depression?” Lutz asks. “Another question is whether this form of mental training and empathy can have an impact for education. We don’t know yet.”

The researchers have already begun a long-term study to see if and how the brain can be trained as well as to compare how different forms of meditation, such as simple concentration versus focusing on compassion, affect the brain differently. In the meantime, compassionate meditation is as simple as visualizing someone you care about, holding that feeling of loving kindness in your mind, and then extending it to others—even people you don’t like.

“It primes the mind for some form of readiness to act with compassion or loving kindness,” Lutz adds. “You can build on this very basic, natural feeling that you have for close relatives and extend that to a stranger.”

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